I love stories! There is no stronger memory from my childhood than settling down at bed time to listen to my father read me a story. Like most dads, he would bring the story to life with such energy and passion, always finding the right voice for each of the different characters.
And that simple opening, "Are You Sitting Comfortably? Then I Will Begin...", has to be among the most powerful openings to illicit a recptive state! From the very first time someone spoke those magical words, we'd settle back and open ourselves up to the adventure we were about to go on.
This love of stories and storytelling remains with me to this day, often popping up when I am coaching or training. So, when I come across articles about stories, I read them with both a personal and professional interest.
In one such article, I was particularly struck by the thought that we share mythical ideas, borne from human endeavour through the ages. Take a moment to consider those tales that endure and you will find they are all based on a few core archetypes.
Harry Potter, Luke Skywalker from Star Wars and Frodo from The Lord of the Rings are all living out the Hero's Journey, taken from Joseph Campbell's work. We can relate to them because, either consciously or unconsciously, we can identify with that part of us.
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Here's an activity using four common archetypes that you can use to resolve even the most difficult challenges.
Think of a challenge you're facing. Now turn it into a powerful question…one that, when you're able to answer it, you'll know how to resolve the challenge, and what to do next.
Next, associate into each of the following archetypes one at a time:
- The Warrior - the action-oriented part of you, energetic and strong... that will stand up and fight for what you believe in.
- The Magician - the part of you that believes in magic, that knows the solution is easy, elegant and quick… your imagination and your intuition.
- The Lover - the part of you that's sensitive and has a deep connection with all other human beings.
- The King - the part of you that is selfless and wise, and is able to see the big picture.
When you tap into each archetype, stand the way you stand when that part of you is in charge - like you have been doing since you saw Amy Cuddy's TED Talk!
As each archetype, ask the powerful question - and then answer it from that archetype. For example “My warrior says……”
Jot down the insights you get from each one, staying with it until you gain clarity, congruence and certainty about the best way forward.
As a leader, you may also use these archetypes in team meetings to help your team with a challenge.
This may seem a little off the wall, but have a go and let me know how you get on.